What if you really, really don’t like where you work and it just isn’t getting better?
I have written quite a few posts on “making it work at work.” I’ve written about not defining yourself by your work, how to take breaks, how to ask for what you need, and how to survive in the job you have.
But what if all of those suggestions just aren’t enough?
What if everything in you is telling you to leave? Or perhaps a tiny voice is whispering… This is not good for you… not good.
Now, maybe you’re reading this and thinking, “But Annie, I love my job.” Or you like your job. Or perhaps you think your job is just fine. There is still something in this post for you. In life there are things we need to quit or stop doing because they are no longer good for us. So even if you love your job, read on.
If you’re reading this and you are stuck in a job you hate — this is a reminder that it is possible to enjoy your work!
There are four overarching reasons you may feel like quitting your job (or ending something major in your life):
1. It is really hard right now.
2. It was the right fit at some point, but now it’s not.
3. You are burned out.
4. Your workplace is toxic and bad for your heart, mind and body.
Does something on that list sound familiar? The first step is identifying that something is wrong. And then you can begin to look at why you feel like quitting. Maybe you’re not sure. Maybe you’re sure but you don’t know what to do about it. Stay tuned for Part Two of this series! We’ll unpack each of those reasons — and some possible solutions — in my next post. Because there ARE things you can do.
For now, here’s a good place to start: Talk to someone outside of your job — someone you trust. Tell them how you are feeling. Figure out how to take more breaks during your workday. Perhaps you can even take a long weekend and spend some time enjoying nature. This will help for now.
And don’t forget to breathe.
Stay tuned for the next two posts in this series.